Last Saturday T went down with a bad dose of flu. After
several weeks in school with hundreds of children she wasn’t too surprised to
pick up a bug. Having only just recovered from a dose myself, I was well practiced
at administering soluble paracetamol, vitamins and minerals, so I sprang into
action. By Sunday evening she had become so ill she begged me not to leave her
alone in her house. So I packed her up in my car and took her home to Casa PJ,
stopping at Tesco enroute to replenish supplies.
I installed her in the guest bedroom and brought in whatever
she wanted: bowls of soup, toast, bars of chocolate and fizzing concoctions of
over-the-counter medicines. The next day I noticed that my throat was getting
sore. Just a coincidence, I thought, as my system must have plenty of antibodies
from my own recent dose. Unfortunately, her virus proved to be different to the
one I had taken and by that evening I was laid up again with a new dose of flu.
With both of us ill in bed, who was to be the nurse?
As T seemed to be the worst off, it had to be me. For the next day or so I
struggled to make us meals and keep up the regular medications. It was exhausting
and stressful to be nursing her and myself at the same time. Then, as I began
to significantly worsen, she started to improve. So the nursing duties
switched.
This dose of flu was much more intensive than the
last. For several days I was laid out flat with a heavy fever, headache and bad
chest. Going down the corridor to the toilet was a major expedition from which
I would come back to bed feeling exhausted. T presented me with porridge laced with
whisky for breakfast, soup for lunch and a good evening meal. As the intensity
of her dose receded, she was left with a dry cough, bouts of sneezing and waves
of exhaustion. After a few days feeling that I would never get better, I began
to join her on the winding road to recovery.
I suppose I could have called her Typhoid Mary. But as they so rightly say, a friend in need is a friend indeed.
I suppose I could have called her Typhoid Mary. But as they so rightly say, a friend in need is a friend indeed.
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